Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Dating Tips For Singles - Finding the One

Great Expectations Dating

Are you single? Are you looking for Dating Tips that will help you create a lasting relationship? Are you tired of being single and longing to have a relationship that lasts more than a season?

Would you like to find someone to love for the rest of your life? Here is some dating tips for singles that will help you find and build an enduring relationship:



1) Jump out of your comfort zone: You will not find your soul mate, staying locked in the four walls of your home. You need to visit places and events where you can meet people. Unless you provide yourself the opportunity to meet new people, you will not be able to meet your special someone.


2) Know what you want: It is very important to be conscious of your preferences. If for example, you are not looking to have children, then do not think about talking to someone having children. If you don't like cats, then think twice before you decide to build a bond with someone who likes cats. Getting what and who you want starts with knowing yourself and your requirements.


3) Compatibility: Compatibility is a very subjective concept. Compatibility doesn't mean you go in search for a person exactly opposite or similar to yours. But it means, you need to make sure that you will be compatible with the person you choose to build a bond with. Compatibility comes more out of adjusting and compromising. It also comes out of differences in opinions, lifestyles, cultures, etc. So choose wisely.


4) Have realistic expectations: Having high expectations from your special one is the number one reason for relationships falling out. It is not wrong to have expectations but make sure they are realistic. And also do not expect live-happily-ever-after-fantasy. Expect some differences to exist between both of you to be resolved. Only then things will be smooth.


5) Communicate, Communicate, Communicate: Talking is not the only thing that comprises communication. A communication also comprises of listening. A bad listener is a bad communicator. When the other person has something to say, be genuinely interested in what they have to say, without being distracted.


So follow these Dating Tips For Singles and you will build an everlasting bond when you do come across your special one!



Great Expectations Dating

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